Sub titles


First there was canned laughter. It prompted us to laugh at appropriate time during a sitcom. So much so that if there was no canned laughter, we didn’t find the prog or the movie funny enough.

Then came the sub titles. All programs have them now. Even the movies on screen at times.

The intention was noble for sure. The accents might be difficult to understand and hence the sub titles. Also it helped popularise English programming. But like canned laughter, there is a fall out.

How many of us, even though we understand the accent completely, also focus on reading the sub titles? My guess would be everybody! If on Netflix or on Prime or any other platform, if there are no sub titles, we switch them on.

The impact of canned laughter and sub titles, to my mind, is huge. We have been dumbed down. We have lost our capacity to think on our own. Everything is a prompt. We can’t function unless we are prompted to do so. We don’t get the joke or the nuances of what is said unless prompted. We expect someone to tell us the sub text of what is happening. We don’t get it on our own.

Zombies all of us. Lost of capacity to think and appreciate 🙂

Interactive Show


Maybe I am getting old. Maybe people are going overboard because they don’t want to be seen as dumbasses who can’t grapple with the next big thing in watching serials but the new Netflix experiment with left me rather irritated.

For me, binge watching (that’s what I end up doing most of the time now), is about starting the serial and throwing the remote away. Get immersed.

But this holding on to the remote because you have to make choices, sucks! People may call it next level of immersion but hell, I thoroughly disapprove.

When not watching tv, our lives are all about making choices. Spare me the act of making choices even when am watching!! Let me calm my mind with some mindless stuff rather than this!

And surprisingly, IMDb rating is 7.7. So obviously it’s not that quite mind blowing as it is made out to be. For me, to watch anything, the rating has to be over 8.

So yeah bring on the hate for me. I did not like the show and couldn’t go beyond first episode one. The first choice itself of sugar pops or Frosties was laughable!!

What have you done for me?


That’s how the world works.

We always look for an exchange. A transaction. Not just in professional life but even in personal life.

“Do me a favour” has an unsaid that the favour will be returned.

Nobody does nothing without an end game in mind.

It’s not just about money or moving up in life. It’s about everything. “I made the coffee yesterday”

And the worst part, we are teaching our kids too. We call it reward but actually we are teaching them how life is transactional.

When did we stop being selfless? And no it is not about charity or a social cause. That is not being selfless. There is a transaction there too.

We all like to believe it’s not true and can peddle arguments about our selfless acts. But hang on… the fact that you can actually list down those acts, suggests that you are banking them for some future gain.

And no, am not holier than thou to think am selfless. It’s just that I seem to have done lot more favours than got them so hell yeah! Am miffed 🙂

Inspiration


The dictionary meaning is – the process of being mentally stimulated to do or feel something, especially to do something creative.

And yet, this is one of the most abused terms today.

People look to get inspired by anything and everything. Religion, leaders, history, events, people, acts, quotes. Put the word “inspiration” in google search and watch the search explode.

Obviously we all seek inspiration. But to do what?? We want to get inspired in our careers. In our relationships. In sports. Etc etc.

But usually it doesn’t go anywhere. This inspiration. A very small moment where we are all set to go forth but it goes poof as soon as we have scrolled up the page (or down. Never quite got which way).

In the digital world, especially on social networks, inspiration has been replaced by influence. People have followers. People have influence. Then they go ahead and write absolute tripe which is found “inspiring” by their followers.

Put up a video (rigged most of the time) and call it inspirational.

Talk about a homeless man or a vendor or a cleaner. Tell a story and there you go! Just inspired a million.

I think we have become so bereft of ideas brought on by absolute laziness that we do not seek inspiration. We look for cookie cutter inspiration. Something that we can latch on to and then tell the world how we are inspired.

There are authors who make millions by writing books that are supposed to be inspirational. Paulo Coelho, Robin Sharma.. anyone?

Get over it people. Look within yourself. You have spent a certain amount of time on this earth. You have a bank of experiences. To do something creative, the world around you is just an ocean. But it is you who has to swim on your own. Get inspired by what you have done with your life.

You are your greatest inspiration.

Now was that inspirational? 🙂

A New beginning


So let’s get this over with. New Year Day. Full of hope and optimism and looking forward to new beginning and excitement of what lies ahead. Love the whole feeling!

But hang on… didn’t we feel the same on first day of 2018? Or 2017 or 2016 or…?

How many new beginnings are we gonna have? 🙂

This whole thing feels so much like the game Temple Run. Keep moving through the levels or running endlessly. Getting happy about a gem, a chest, meters run, power ups etc etc. it’s endless. Game is endless but life isn’t.

So for us, every new year day starts at high energy and as the days go by, it starts dipping. Small energy spikes when something good happens (not too often) and all the disappointments that sap the energy out and we look at the New Year Day as the recharge.

It’s funny though that we keep looking for “days” as the rallying points in our lives. Endless list created for consumption by Hallmark and Archie’s of the world 🙂

For me, hell yeah! Another new beginning. And am hoping that this truly is one. I don’t think I can stand yet another beginning on the first day of 2020!

Bookends of life


Utterly random post. Most of my posts are random anyway. This one is being keyed in while am on a flight. Bored with music and the videos and the books.

So yes there is birth and then there is death. The two bookends of a book called life.

In between you have a total page turner.

There is a preface written by our parents. Their expectations – should it be a boy or a girl. What they want the children to be when they grow up.

The epilogue is perhaps written by our kids.

But what happens in between, every word and every page, keeps us turning the page with eagerness. Sure we all want to know how it ends but hey we don’t get to know that.

Every page unfolds the story line by line. We try very hard to define the plot. We try to force certain scenes to happen in a way on the next page. Anxious and eager to make the story happen as per our wishes. Doesn’t happen.

There are pages that make us feel all elated. The excitement that starts from deep within and the anticipation of what happens next.

Then there are pages which fill us with sadness. Sometimes even guilt and remorse. The protagonist could have… should have behaved or acted differently.

But here lies the fun. It is us and only us who make the book an utter page turner. Unknowingly we are writing what is going to happen on the next page. If you were to quickly move to the pages ahead, you will find them blank. Some pages could be blurry because the plot is taking shape on the previous pages. But we will never know how things turn out till we reach that page.

There are pages we revisit. Some are fresh and some are blurred. Some revisited pages make us cry and some laugh. Those are the memories.

But sadly, most of us don’t have the patience or the control to let the plot unfold on its own. We push and we force and we keep rewriting the pages to make the story happen way we want it to. Doesn’t work. It may seem that we have the plot in our grasp but it ain’t. There is always a twist that is waiting for us on the next page.

I say why guess or anticipate or wish for the story to happen the way we want? Let’s have fun with what is happening on the page you are reading. Let the next page be utter surprise. Build the anticipation for that surprise. Not for the way we want it to happen. Good or bad, it sure as hell is going to be a surprise and a twist. And that twist could be twisted or untwisted on the page that follows. FUN!

Climax, when it happens, we don’t know how it is going to happen but it is the culmination of what we have read, what we have formed on each page we read.

One thing I would have wanted in the book though (here is me wishing for stuff), as we read along, the pages that we have read, go blank. It’s like the story is only about reading ahead. No going back to read the back pages.

THE BOOK OF LIFE IS ONE TIME READ ONLY.

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Happy Place


We all have our happy place right? Or we don’t? The place we go to when we want to get away from it all. It could be a physical space that we head out to (not possible often enough). Or it could be the mind space. Mind full of happy memories. Mind where we also look forward to a great time ahead and feel happy. The smile on our faces and people wonder if we are insane. Yes there is also a box in our mind which tends to get opened up. Of memories that are happy ones and yet create an ache.

For a long time, books used to be my happy place. I could totally get lost in words and the pages. Used to transport myself into the unfolding plot.

Off late though I have discovered meditation. Yeah a very late entrant into this. It’s been a week. Am still struggling to cleanse my mind of all the thoughts and immerse myself. But I think I have found my happy place.

Lot of people who know me, weird is what they will think. I do not come across as meditation kind of guy. But I felt I need to experience this too.

It has been a great experience so far. I am doing only 7 mins of chakra meditation. Hopefully when I learn to let go of all the thoughts, I might be able to increase the time.

I haven’t figured out the chakra part either. I am sure as I move through various chakras, I should be focusing on the body part that each chakra impacts. Will learn as I go along 🙂

So what’s your happy place?